Me and my partner. Have been together for a year. I told him I would like to wait a year before the kids being involved as you can’t truly no someone for a while, I understand that’s a long time. It’s just what I felt best for my children. So on the days I don’t have them I see him every minute of my free time. I suffer with anxiety and depressive disorder and some of my own time is so essential to me. So on a Tuesday after my children have gone to bed (as the other days I see him or I’m here there and everywhere taking my children to clubs and not getting back til late) is my only couple of hours that I get to myself. We see each other 2/3 days a week. He said there’s been no progression in that. A month ago I introduced him to my children and I was planning on meeting his too last week when they got back off holiday. His argument now is that going forward everything will be too slow for him, as I think days out a few times when we all meet and gradually adding a day where he comes through the chaos of my week with the kids is the right thing to do. Baring in mind my eldest son is autistic. So change can’t be sudden. I’m just wondering peoples thoughts. He has been so patient the past year. I told him in hindsight I should have done the Tuesday and let him come around after the boys have been to bed. But I believe that would be giving up on some time that I need myself. Sorry. Big rant. First time here 🫣😂