There is more to this but it would be to much to write bit o will answer things if Need be .
Dd was in a relationship that ended recently. DV was involved. Her now ex as a child his mum was in a DV relationship. So he saw things. Also as a child his dad beat him. So we believe he was seeing stuff and went onto become an abuser himself and followed the footsteps of his violent father. Dd has a baby with him and I'm /sometimes we . Are thinking he could do the same to his son. As he's following them foot steps so far.
Dd has to end the relationship because she had to call the police over the DV and sge risks loosing her children if she gets back with him . Anyway there's been stupid things said via social media or things through the grapevine it's things like lying about what really happend. Slagging off . Gossip through others some of it is stupidness . Dd was coping OK. She was pretty angry. Like he's a fucking liar he's full of shit. He's an arsehome etc just anger sounding of . But said to people she's close to.
As I said she was being pretty strong in a way. But then someone has told her he's seeing someone else. And she's completely lost it emotionally she's constantly crying about how hurt she feels. And how could he do this to me. He was there for me he supported me through so much now he's just dropped me like I'm nothing. People have said to her she can't control what he does and she heads to focus in the positive stuff she has going on. But is it a time thing she just needs to go through theses emotions so she can move on?
I think this may be relevant dd was in a DV relationship just over 4 years ago. Her current ex met her around this time and supported her though everything. Her current ex became toxic leading to physical DV over the past 18months or so.