First time poster but looking for others thoughts as a bit embarrassed to discuss with friends IRL.
DP and I together 10 years with a DC.
We both work from home a lot, me downstairs in dining room him upstairs in office then come together for tea break/lunch.
The issue started off as pretty trivial but seemed to get a bit strange and left me pretty confused.
We're both working from home and DP is typing like mad, like he's typing out a novel. I notice as it's pretty unusual for him. This goes on until he comes down for lunch when I ask him if he's busy and he says no he's really quiet so I ask what all the typing was and he says just messing about. The typing goes on for the next few days but weirdly it stops if I go upstairs for any reason and only starts again when I'm back downstairs. I popped into the office and DP promptly closed a tab. I asked him why and why the typing stops when I'm upstairs. He said he stopped in case I was coming to speak to him. He then went on to say he was working and therefore none of my business. His work isn't confidential so I find this really strange.
Few days later I go to use DPs laptop to do an online food shop. It's always there for me to use.but I can't as it's password protected. I asked him to open it which he does to let me do the food shop. I asked him why it's now password protected and he says it's also been it's just that I can always access it as he's always logged into his Google account on it. When I asked why he's now logged out of that he says he doesn't know or can't remember.
If your friend, daughter sister told you this would you think she sounded crazy/paranoid or would you think her DPs behaviour was suspicious?