What can I do for my wonderful friend?

[tiredemma]

I have a fantastic BF who has been my bestest buddy since we were 12. She is simply great I very rarely get to spend any quality time with her due to hectic life (mine mainly) - but when we do get together its great and we have so much fun.

She has been married for 4 years this month and has been trying for a baby for approx 2 years but no joy. On thursday (which also happens to be her wedding annv) she is going into hospital for Laproscopy (sp?) as a recent hosiptal appt suggested that she may have difficulty concieving due to cervical laser treatment she had during her late teens.
She is very concerned that she may never concieve.

I really want to do something 'nice' for her this week, but im lacking in decent ideas.

I cannot begin to tell you how special she is, im really feeling for her this week.

Does she work? i.e. would she be available during the day? You could take her to a day spa somewhere and have a massage/facial/pedicure, etc.

I sometimes feel like I don't get to see my best friend as often as I'd like too.

What I do sometimes is send a pretty card that just says something like I am thinking of you and then maybe a little choccie bar or a book I think she'd like.

Its quite cheap but means that she knows that someone is thinking of her and its great when you get the post and its not just bloody bills!

She's a lucky lady to have such a fab friend!

I make a date once a month to have dinner with my best friend. She is a doctor and works really hard & I am always busy with the kids etc. Would love to see her more as we have been inseparable since we were 6 but our frienship runs deep so its fine.
If your friend is around in the daytime how about a really nice boozy girls lunch somewhere in town followed by a manicure. If not, sending a bunch of flowers and a note to tell her you are thinking of her will mean the world. - To be honest, even just the card will lt her know that you care. It doesnt take much but best friends should be cherished.xx

When I was having a hard time my lovely friend booked us both a hair appointment and then took me for a lovely long lunch.

It was greatly appreciated

Thanks for your suggestions. x