Been with hubby 8 years been married a year and a half. What can I do, I work full time my husband works full time too, he gets home a hour earlier than me , as soon as I walk in the door he asks for his dinner, once I've cooked it and he's eaten it he goes a bed this is about 6pm, this is every night during the week, weekends he gets up about 8 then gets fed up with what Evers going on then goes bed about lunchtime , that's his life. I try talk to him about it , he says I am moaning too much. I try to get him out and about even a walk but he won't, it's bringing me down.
My family tell me to get out and about and don't waiting sitting in front room till he gets up ! But it's hard, he's been short tempered too recently put fist through bedroom door in a temper about too much junk in a cupboard in the living room ! That was it ! I tried talking to him about what's wrong etc etc I've been very patient with him, definitely when he calls me names etc. some days it's fine then suddenly he changes with moods, he's late 40s.
Any advice pls I presume he has depression but if he has, he has got no interest in getting help!