I've been talking to this guy for a few weeks and been on 2 dates, we're both 30. I feel like we really hit it off over text intially having lots in common and our dates have been fun, but I can't tell if he's still interested and starting to wonder if maybe he just wants someone to talk to/pass the time. We haven't broken the physical barrier on dates apart from hugging goodbye, but i think we're both a bit awkward in that regard. After the first date I pretty much straight away suggested a 2nd which he chose a place and we had 2 days ago. He messaged after saying thanks for today and for letting him win at pool. Maybe I'm reading too much into it but i didnt think that suggested hed be up for doing it again and he hasn't hinted at it since so I get the feeling things might have fizzled out from his side or become more platonic. After being eager for the 2nd date id rather him suggest the 3rd which is why im reluctant to outright ask. We still message and he'll always respond to keep conversation going even when it's not nesseccary and send some flirtatious/banterous messages but it feels very surface level and like it's moreso me flirting and asking questions. I haven't dated in a long time so don't know if I'm overthinking/expecting things to move fast or falling into a trap with someone who isn't interested. I'm not sure how to approach asking him without coming across as awkward/intense?