Will he change

[Sophiemumxx]

He keeps telling me he will never change never did . After loads of crying and begging still didn't . For months . Then has done one day of change and said this is the start of many. Do I stay

No

Sadly only you can answer that. Are you happy? If he doesn’t change then do you see a future with him?

Can you trust he will change or would some time apart to focus on yourselves help?

They never change.
He will manipulate you and break what little confidence you have left.

God no. Run as fast as you can.

No, but would help with more context to your op

No go, he is right he won't change.

No he won’t change.

Men and women don't change

People do change. It could be a realisation that some things are. It acceptable, reduction in stress, maturing, the other person… or many other things.

it depends what it is and how minor they are. If it’s picking up the socks off the floor that’s totally different to repeated violence.

Why would he?

Someone that hurts you isn't going to change.
Let alone someone who you've even discussed the hurt with, and he still hasn't changed.

Stop wasting your life on assholes.

It's hard to say, there is no context

Did he change after you threatened to leave? If so, he'll never change. He'll suck you back in until you've lost your energy to leave and then he'll revert and it'll be too hard to go through all that again and you'll be stuck.

Don't fall for it.

If he likes the way he is, then no, he won’t change.

You have to decide if you can and will live with the idea of what you want or with what you actually have (because they are two different things).

Change what?