wasn't sure where to put this, but here goes. i dated a guy for about 9 months, it wasn't serious and we had loads of fun. he had a hairy leg fetish and we did some 'photo's and 'videos' for when he was home alone and he also added them too some website or other where people paid to see them. Nothing sexual, mainly videos of me driving the car barefoot, close ups of my feet changing gear... it was just a bit of fun and i never thought much of it when the relationship ened.
the relationship did end, and to be honest, we stayed really good friends, we are talking some 15 years ago now. Anyway, I am now very happily married with no issues, and he is also married!
My husband has no issue with the friendship, and we hold no secrets, the ex on the other hand, his wife does not like me, i would assume because of our past relationship.
I found out recently that the website had been receiving income all this time and the ex mentioned too me that he was going to close down the website and would split the funds with me. i declined told him to keep any money and to make sure all the content was deleted.
it now turns out, although he's shut down the website, he had actually kept the content and 'uses' it from time to time for his own purposes.
I've now not spoken to him for a good few months, because i found this behaviour a little odd.
i guess i am just venting... it seems so unfair to his wife, i thought me and him were just friends but im beginning to wonder now if there were more feelings on his part? am i best to completely ignore and walk away from what is not the friendship i thought it was.
i can confirm after we broke up, there was never anything physical between us again and i honestly thought we were friends