Hi,
I have very recently found myself engaging in mild/harmless flirtatious banter with my ex boss, we are both separated and he does not work at my company any more, but when he did he was my direct boss, responsible for me ETC ETC, when he was my boss I never looked at him like that at all probably because i was really young when he was my boss ( he's about 12 years older than me) but I am talking 10 years ago, I'm nearly 30 now , but we recently started a bit of harmless banter/flirting through private social media ETC, which out of nowhere on both parts started to get very intense, i started to see him in a completely different light and quite frankly become very turned on by it all.... we now meet up and have wild s##
The whole thing feels so wrong, I insist on meeting up ( when we go for drinks etc.) out of the area as the company I still work for, where I have a lot of colleagues and friends from, I would feel mortified if people found out, and he is respectful of this and wants to protect me from gossip, as he works elsewhere now so doesn't matter to him, which is sweet, but still..... why do I feel like I'm being really naughty lol