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Counselling for toxic family relationships?

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NotTHATMelania · 03/06/2024 20:22

I have been approached by a family member to try and help two other family members reconcile their differences. Possibly because I am known to have a good relationship with both sides.........which I value. So I don't want to attempt to help and end up alienating both sides.
I believe that both those involved in the conflict truly want to have a healthier relationship - they are both hurting, but pride or misplaced ideas about the need for the other person to apologise for some perceived slight are getting in the way.
Is there such a thing as relationship counselling , similar to that for warring spouses but for other family members: or would a "marriage guidance counsellor" actually be able to help ? It seems to me that the issues involved are very similar - a relationship has broken down, but deep down, both sides want to repair it.
Any suggestions about how to find a way forward will be gratefully received (but please don't tell me to mind my own business : it is my business as I love them all dearly.) TIA

[Edited to add : we are talking blood relatives here, although the person who has asked me to intervene is an "in-law".]

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