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Betrayal

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lostsole70 · 01/06/2024 22:46

How do you get over the most painful betrayal imaginable? A friend who refuses to see you after the biggest trauma of your life involving detainment and allegations by a man you trusted? How do you get over the fact that she couldn't make an effort to see you when you were breaking in two? And stopped communicating and refused to text anything in writing? Almost overnight following the arrest?. And this is after she took his number following the split some
Time before and sent a text to him telling him off and refused to send it to me. I've lost my mind and security with what has happened but this is insult on top of injury. I have lost my trust in someone who I thought was a very close friend of years but who has had no inclination to see me when I have needed someone desperately. And now I feel so alone and I have no idea what the truth of anything is but I know in my gut that she is not a person I can trust.

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TheSilentSister · 01/06/2024 23:24

I am sorry you are going through a really horrible time. It's not entirely clear what's happened but the one thing I got from your thread was that you seem to be entirely reliant on this one friend, and it's consuming you. Maybe they feel too much pressure to take sides in what sounds like a complicated situation.
There's not enough info and it's just my initial impression.

lostsole70 · 01/06/2024 23:54

She was my closest friend since separation and moving. I struggle to maintain close friendships due to my brain I guess. She understood that and I honestly thought she would be someone I could count on. But the situation that came about was so horrific and traumatic and left me unable to function for days. And she stopped texting me and my phone didn't work. And that was a month ago. We've spoken but I found it incredible that in circs so extreme as what I've had there has been no effort whatsoever to see me. And so yeah I feel alone and I'm trying to survive a crisis on many levels and all I wonder is why she turned as she did. And all I keep going back to is the fact she had his number and vice versa.

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FiveZoo · 02/06/2024 00:52

Sounds horrendous op.

Are you thinking they were in communication before the arrest? Are you thinking the narrative has been altered to show you in a negative light ?

lostsole70 · 02/06/2024 07:50

No not saying anything, I just don't understand.

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