Relationship problems

[Misstee18]

Basically by partner split up with me. Im 6 months pregnant. Things dont work out. When we have a slight disagreement he goes in a mood where he dont talk to me from 3-7 days. We live together. He ended it and still living here. I told him indont want him here as its just rubbing it in my face where i love him to bits my DD calls him dad as he took my DD on. He says he needs to save before hes going. I told him i dont want that as its unhealthy but apprently im thinking about myself and making it about me. Cant talk to him when hes like this. Hes now saying im the one who wanted a baby and kept going on about one… but it takes two to tango?!

Is it your house or in joint names? If it's just in your name put his stuff outside and change the locks.

Its in both our names. He said if he had the money then hell move out now. He still sleeps in same bed as me he wont go on the sofa. If i could i would be suffering from back problems in this pregnancy. Thats the stuff that confusses me. Hes bringing his son from a previous relationship back to the house for the weekend. Still has a picture on his screensaver of us. That messes with my head

Sorry it is happening to you.
But as the house is in both if your names - it is as much his as it is yours. He can bring his son for the weekend, etc.
Have you thought about what you are going to do once he does move out?

Can you afford the rent and other expences?

It housing association (how ever you spell it) he keeps saying he doesnt want to be here etc. i duno but obvs uc wil have to be changed to single. He pays the bills as he works so i jus dont know.

Don't let trivia mess with your head.

He brings his son back there because its his home. He doesn't want to move out before he has the money to do so because its his home and he's entitled to do that.

He hasn't changed his screensaver because, tbh, that means nothing.

He's able to share a bed with you because the relationship is over in his head. It's just a sleeping space.

So.

Don't waste any time thinking you might get back together or he might change his mind.

There's nothing to be confused about. Start preparing for the future. And you will be fine.