Has anyone experienced this?

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Has anyone experienced their ex saying horrible stuff about your children? Could you move past it? Are you suppose to? Is it possible to say really horrible things about your children and not mean it? (He claims he didn't mean it) I don't want to speak to him due to the things he said about our children but he doesn't understand why. Has anyone experienced their ex saying horrible stuff about your children?

What these are his children ?

Disgusting man.

You have every right to cut him off, he's a sub par human.

Yes he is their father. I spoke to some people and they told me they could forgive it if he has stepped up since and been a good father because "we all say things we don't mean" but I think saying it about your children crosses a line if it had been said about me I could move past it.

What exactly did he say?

He said that they were nothing to do with him and He will Never be a father to them or take responsibility for them, he referred to them as “rejects” that I chose to have and I "didnt need to keep them", he told me to never contact him again unless it was an emergency but otherwise he wants nothing to do with them. He said the only reason why I want him involved is because I have "no family" and why should he see them as plenty of dads don't see their kids. He has made claims that I had them for money because I applied for child maintenance. My daughter needed a tooth removed and when he found out he said I had done it on purpose to force him to be around (I didn't of course, shes autistic and it was a baby tooth and I struggle to get her to brush her teeth due to sensory issues)

Nah, I wouldn’t be speaking to him again. If he was fussed about seeing his kids, which it sounds like he’s not, he could go to court about it.

I wouldn't even contact him in an emergency.

He’s a pig OP

Be glad to have him out of your life.
Someone with his attitude can only have a negative effect on you and your children.

Are you still claiming CMS from him ?
If so, just continue with that so at least he has to pay something.

Don't contact him even in an emergency.

He's the reject here. A failure as a dad and human being.

What an absolute cunt

Agreed with @SeaWorkout he is the reject here. Because he deserved to be rejected.
Awful attitude. He meant every word to scare you.

No he doesn't pay child maintenance he is on cash in hand so he doesn't have to pay anything. I just wondered if there was any possibility someone could say this stuff and not actually mean it I mean I don't believe that personally but others have told me it's possible or if he's stepped up since then then they would be able to forgive it. He did try to actually say he meant he was the reject when he came back he tried to twist it and say I just randomly blocked him for no reason and seemed to have 'forgotten' all the stuff he said when I reminded him he said he meant he was the reject because I was rejecting him and not letting him see the children 🤦🏻‍♀️ when he definitely referred to them as "reject kids" and no I've never contacted him since emergency or otherwise.