Married 18years need advice please

[Smith696]

Hi I'm new here and I was hoping to get some advice.

My hubby and I have been married for 18 years, 6 kids,
Long story short. I got poorly in March and he decided to sleep in another room with our 2 year old and he hasn't been back in bed with me since. We spend little time together anymore sex is non existent and he claims there's nothing wrong

I've tried everything but he's just not interested, I know he watches ALOT of porn despite denying it this has been a problem in our marriage before but I have honestly tried everything. I've tried talking to him I've tried EVERYTHING I can think of sexually but nothing helps. Any advice

Kick him out and let him enjoy his wanking.

There are obviously some underlying issues here, could be his health or he has lost interest in you for some reason. It doesn't help that he is reluctant to talk to you and figure what the problem might be. Perhaps you need to stop trying to have sex and take a little step back to rekindle the passion. Could be through shared activities, date nights, being affectionate. If he does not reciprocate, then clearly there are deeper issues. A relationship counsellor would also be a good solution so you can either work to better your marriage or consider whether this the end of the road for this relationship.

Trust me I've tried talking I've tried date nights. We've gone 7 weeks with no sex before I tried that too. He won't talk to me he claims he hasn't lost interest in me but he will not talk to me or discuss anything. Everytime I try and have an honest conversation he goes off on one and points all the blame on me saying everything is fine and maybe I'm the one with the problem

Tried kicking him out he won't go anywhere. Claims he doesn't want to leave. He has enjoyed his wanking too much also if seems 🤣 but if I'm not enough so be it. Just waiting for him to tell me I have 6 kids to take care of that's more important to me

It sounds as though he is addicted to porn.
It really sounds as though your marriage is over.
You say he won't leave: is it your house?

Private rented house. Both names are on the lease !