New man

[Mia42]

So I’ve been seeing someone for a wee while now. I really like him and he feels the same. He’s totally different to my ex. He’s honest, respectful and kind.
We have both agreed we don’t want to see other people. Does this mean he’s my partner ? I have no idea it’s been a long time 🤣Also when is it ok to introduce new partner to children ? It’s obviously too soon but would like to hear from others in a similar position

He's just a boyfriend. Partner is a meaningless word, since people are legally single, but implies sharing bills and a house.
Only get your kids involved in your relationship if it's in their best interests.

Thanks for answering

What's a wee while?

You can call him whatever you want. I prefer boyfriend for non-living together.

I'd enjoy the dating stage and getting to know each other stages for as long as possible - rushing to domesticity always seems a bit strange to me.

Depends on the age and maturity of kids. My last relationship was pretty quick, within a few weeks. It just felt right, kids were teens and wanted to see who was making dad happy. Also as their mum lives a mile away they are often popping back when not here and would often pop in when she was there. If you feel it has a future then go for it when it feels right. Within 6 weeks or so our sons were working together in a part time job.

Partner is more formal

You barely know him. He's a date, not a life partner.

Please do not bring a stranger into your children's lives until you have known him well more than a year. He's your boyfriend, maybe, not the man in their lives.