Sex question

[Mia42]

I have recently started seeing a new man and everything seems to be going so well I’m on cloud 9 I feel so happy after leaving an abusive relationship.
‘However there is a small issue which is the size of his manhood. It’s on the small side now we’ve not had sex yet but I’m worried he won’t feel me and vice versa. Thoughts ?

Have you ever considered using toys? There is so much out there. Penis pumps, rings even wearable dildos which his penis fits inside of. Have a frank conversation and ask if he would be open to the use of toys, they can be really fun!

Try other forms of stimulation? Fingers, mouths...tends to work more effectively to get me there anyway. He may make up for the small deficit in other ways

How small is small?

Doggy. With your thighs splayed.

Thoughts on here won’t help. Try it. I would think as long as he has a tongue in his head …

Admittedly it can be a problem but why do you think you/he won't feel each other?
How small is he - and have you had kids?

I’ve had 3 kids but no problems down there I’m not sure I suppose he’s smaller than what I’m used to

You won't know until you try I suppose. 🫤

True I really like him so hopefully it’ll be ok

Don't worry about it until you've tried it. He might be a grower anyway

I'd say do it sooner rather than later, so if it's not great you haven't invested anything in it.
Has he mentioned size?

You won't know till you try. Different positions can help. Plus he presumably has a tongue and fingers. You can use toys.

You have presumably been sufficiently intimate to know he's small, so just go the rest of the way to find out, else it is likely to become a big barrier in your mind.

(I did talk to one guy who kept going on and on about his tiny dick, and wanted to be humiliated over it, and wanted to know what he could humiliate me over. If I tried changing the subject, he'd soon be back to talking about his tiny dick. I told him I wanted a relationship based on respect and blocked him. If your guy is like this, run for the hills. Otherwise, give him a chance.)

Try it and see what you think?

A good sex connection is important, if he is responsive to you and your body language etc, if he turns you on mentally as well as physically, I expect sexual peak can be yours no bother, after all lesbian's don't have a penis at all and doesn't seem to stop them getting off on each other. 😁