Bit of a long long story
Sorry
So I have had a some what situationship over the past year with a man I've known for over a decade. Nothing intimate has happened.
It was mostly texts! Sexting. Meeting for coffees etc meals. But never anything intimate:
We'd make arrangements to go to his. But then something would come up. I know he's not married.. also know there is no "significant" other.
He hounds me with text morning noon and night.
Few times I've called it off because he's being so evasive.
Then he wins me over telling me how he feels about me etc.
2023/24 New Year's Eve.. I hadn't spoken to him since early November: I just kept ignoring him. He had lied to me and he was trying to "make it up" but I told him I was too upset about it.
So I decided at the Bells for 2024 I would not bring him into this year with me.
He hounded me with messages:
Some angry: some pleading some telling me his undying infatuation with me.
Eventually I gave in.
Met him for lunch
We had a long talk and drew a line under the "lie"
Arranged to meet up for proper date at his the next week.
He lives a long way from me.
Then he said he might be working and needed to cancel, again!
I lost it: told him I was so fed up getting the brush off etc.
He then told me he was done!!
I found myself to be the one chasing him for a change:
Eventually we made up.
And then one week later he told me if I was needed sex, to go get it from a muscly guy at my gym!
He hasn't spoken to me since! This was end of February.
However... every single day since then. He has been looking at my stories on social media.
Says nothing!!
I'm at a loss...
I tried reaching out in April and he just read it, never replied and yet even up to today. Looks at my stories.
I don't know what to make of it. My friends are all stumped too:
Anyone have their input on what kinda mind he's got? Why look if he doesn't want it? Just very odd