Thoughts on nothing in common

[someon]

My Partner wants to split up with me and one of the reason he says to me is we have nothing in common
We have been together for 6yrs now
It got me thinking If this was the case surly he would have realised this a year into our relationship ? Or is this a flimsy excuse
Thoughts please.

It may be the beginning of the Script. It's very common for men to start rewriting history.

Is he right?

Is he right?

I think we are like any other couple
We don't share the same hobbies. But thats never been a problem for me
He says he likes walking and i never want to do it but he never asks ? I was with a walking club before we moved house so id never say that !

We both like food / wine similar tastes we like our holidays too do things together then
I just think its a crappy excuse

He’s met someone else I imagine and is excusing it with this lame ass excuse.

It’s a very common excuse unfortunately, it’s like -we drifted apart. It probably seems less harsh to him than whatever the truth is - I’m not in love with you anymore… I’ve found someone else etc.

Sometimes they think the grass is greener…
wish you well OP

Aww, I feel for you, whether it is a "reason", or an "excuse", and you will probably never really know, I would start to make my plans to move on. He wants to split up from you and no amount of soul searching or changing your ways will make any difference, so sorry, but he is not the man for you. xx