Hi all
I started seeing a guy a few months ago met him through friends and all was going well until this week.
He told me that he had a “crazy” ex he had broken up a year ago and often spoke about how badly she treated him, physical, mental abuse etc. Lo and behold she starts adding me on Facebook I didn’t know who it was and foolishly accepted. He rang me to say she rang him saying I had added her this didn’t add up as he said he had her blocked and when I questioned this he said she rang him from a landline. She then sent him a picture saying how ugly I was and he proceeded to tell me exactly what she had said. I was really upset by this as I have confidence issues and could see from her picture she was beautiful. I told him I don’t want to know what she said about me and he said I was making it all about me.
He then said she told him I had a picture of my ex and this annoyed him it was from 10 years ago!! He said he couldn’t deal with it and was hot and cold with me for a week. I text him to say things weren’t adding up how she sent a picture if she was blocked and I said I’m really uncomfortable about the whole thing I feel like there’s still feelings there and we want different things.
He is still texting me but the other day was really rude to me when I was trying to give him advice on something. I’m really upset because I’m at the age where I want to settle down and we got along in every other way and he’s saying I abandoned him.
something just really wasn’t sitting right with me do you think I overreacted or made the right decision.