So I've been chatting with someone for a month, it's long distance. At the start he would send me video messages and voicenotes as I love his accent and am attracted to him physically. I sent video messages and voicenotes back and we have had 3 video calls as well.
But this last week and half , he has just been texting and has literally stopped sending me voicenotes and videos. For me the whole point of it is to see him and hear his voice , not have a penpal who I text with.
I really like him but this is bothering me and now I jut text him back rather than voicenote or send a video as I think, why should I go to the trouble of doing it when he clearly isn't. It's just such low effort. He still is interested as he is the one mainly initiating the texts. I just don't know why he has stopped voice noting me etc?
I don't want it to end but it seems pretty pointless just texting each other like this and I feel like I should tell him that I don't really want to continue it if we are going to just text each other.
Any ideas what I should do?