I just found out my boyfriend if 4 years have been cheating on me with 3 other women for over 18 months. He currently gf reached out to tell me she knew of me only recently and of another woman. When I confronted him about it he said he was only friends with these ‘lame ducks’ because they needed a shoulder to cry on. He then says they’re still only friends but yes he does have sex with them. My boyfriend is 52 and a doctor. We are all quite a bit younger at 38,35 and 47. He has two teenage kids who have all seen him rotating us in turn in front of his family and none of them have said a word for so long. To make it worse his current partner who recently left him is a police officer. She’s been told about his recreational drug use and sex parties which i unaware of. I knew he was invited to one but I asked him not to attend it yet he still did for ‘ the experience. I’m trying to move on. But what a dilema. He’s a medical doctor and a GP who takes drugs most weekends. Should we report him to the medical council or leave dogs lie? To be honest I don’t want to stoop that low but do we have a duty of care to report him in case he puts patient safety at risk?
any thoughts welcome. I’d like to never see him again and I really don’t have the mindset to seek revenge.