I don't really know what I'm hoping to achieve by posting this but I'm just feeling so shit at the moment and don't have anyone to talk to. DH and I have a 19 month old DD and the issue is that we haven't had sex for almost 2 years now. We didn't really have sex while I was pregnant as we both felt a bit weird about it (DH more so than me) and after baby arrived we were just so exhausted. We don't live near family so everything is more intense and we never really get time to ourselves. I have tried in the past to say that I think we need to make time for sex but he's just brushed it off and said it's hard now but it'll get easier. Today I decided I was going to make a real effort after DD went to sleep. I got her into bed, went downstairs in my most revealing PJs and found DH in a crap mood because he'd broken a key in a lock which is potentially now going to require a locksmith. This is probably the straw that broke the camel's back to be fair, as we've had a lot of issues with our house recently. I then got a bit upset and explained I missed being a couple and had hoped we could have sex tonight. He told me he misses having time as a couple too and we had a heart to heart, but he made absolutely no effort to initiate any intimacy of any kind. I'm left feeling so deflated and like he just doesn't fancy me any more. Has anyone been through anything similar? Did you manage to make it work?