Is he interested or not?!

[Ash2345f]

So I have been dating a guy since the end of March we’ve been on 5 dates (some extended dates) alongside staying overnight at his home. At the beginning his messages were fairly consistent however the last couple of days he’s taking a long time to reply or even get back to me and when he does i’m not sure if he’s interested. I’m so confused I did say to him when we went away I didn’t know if he was feeling this because of this and he said he didn’t realise he was giving mixed signals and that absolutely isn’t what he wanted to portray as he really likes me. We all know though less response is a sign or am I being overly sensitive?

What are these messages about? Some people are not into chat via messages. If you are managing to make plans to see each other and he's prioritising that then that's ok isn't it? Not everyone spends a load of time on their phones!

When you say “last couple of days”, do you actually mean the last two days? Or has it been longer?

Not trying to be pedantic or anything, I’m just wondering if you’re maybe overthinking as two days is nothing in the grand scheme of things.

So we have made plans to see each other this Saturday he’s staying over mine etc and the messages are just general day to day chat. He has tailed off over the weekend but I’m just going to try and not think about it as much and see how Saturday goes - we both agreed to come off dating sites a couple of weeks back so I’m positive but it always rings alarm bells for me when communication styles change some weeks in maybe that’s my own issues from past experiences