If you rarely have sex and it doesn't bother either of the couple

[branflake81]

and you are otherwise very happy and have a good relationship, is it a problem? Or not?

I wouldn't have thought so

no - are you totally sure neither party is bothered though?

hmmm

As long as both parties are really happy with it, and remain so. And have no sneaking feeling that they're missing out.

i would talk about it though
just in case

nope, course it's not a problem - imagine loads of couples are like this, but agree that you should make sure you're both happy.

We don't have sex, my hubby is very happy about it, doesn't give it a second thought while it makes me UTTERLY miserable!

it depends on both pasrtners if you both ok i dont see why it matters , as ther more to a relationship than love making you can still have the closeness in other ways ,just talk to partner and discuss things xx

Not a problem if neither partner is bothered.

I think very few people have the exact same libido levels as each other in a couple but I do think that some sex/desire is probably quite important for sustaining an intimate relationship and can't imagine total abstinance for the long term. But that is just me.

Nope. Not a problem at all.

Husband and I are too knackered to do hanky panky. We have both discussed it but we are finding working full time to meet the bills and raise two small children, one of whom does not sleep at night, exhausting.