I have been having romantic dreams about a work colleague. Not sexual, just comforting. We're together and just happy in my dream. I didn't think I even fancied him - at least I don't when I'm awake. He is so kind, caring, funny and intelligent. A little bit nerdy, but very funny. I can see us together, living an amazing life.
It scares me. He has some of the qualities of my DH, who is a very good man. DH spends so much time at work and gets so fully absorbed into it to the detriment of me and the kids. We have probably slipped into boring routines and we don't have much time to spend together. Do I need to avoid my work colleague? Why on earth am I having these dreams?