Good afternoon,
I don't have many women in my life that id be confident in asking this following question to and the men who I'm asking are swaying with the exact same thought process as me. I was at a loss as to where to post, but thought a forum full of women may be the best place.
Ok,
So my partner has a guy who she is very close with, he was with her mum for 13 years but then broke up. They (my partner and him) didn't see each other for around 9 years until I organised a surprise meet up. We then started seeing him every other month, trying to build that relationship back up. She has never once called him dad or anything like that but I would have assumed that's where her head was at.....maybe
Anyway he had another divorce two years ago and he was messaging my partner allot whilst he was going through the break up. He said she helped him get through it when he needed somebody so he paid for a holiday for the two of them to go away (this was last year)
They went on holiday for 4 days, separate rooms and from what she says, they had a good time.
then comes Christmas just gone he messaged my partner saying he'd like to take her away again - All good, enjoy your self, I'm cool with that - no issues.
About 2 weeks ago I found out that they wasn't having separate rooms this time.. A little odd I thought but whatever. Until a couple of days before the holiday, my partner comes out the shower bald as a 90 year old man with alopecia. I really didn't think anything at the time. On that evening I said to her that she had missed some bits, nothing really but odd bit here and there as you do. The next night she got in the shower and shaved them off
Now, my partner only shaves for hot holidays, swimming and upon my request if its getting a bit hard to see down there.
Why has she now chose to shave before going on a city break in spring with a guy who's she sharing a room with?
Help me see this from a woman's perspective, please! Make it make sense to me!
I did ask for a photo of the hotel and the rooms, I said I'm jealous but I wanted to know if there was a double bed or two singles. The picture she shown was a double bed and a sofa bed in the corner made up.
Also, just to add to the confusion - When she facetimes us at night, she is in the made up bed which has now moved to the bottom of the double bed. Surely any man out there would let the woman sleep in the big bed and not an un-comfy one for 4 nights?
Again,
Please help me make sense of this situation. If I confront her about this I'm going to be made out to be the weird one for even thinking this but the circumstances around this are just very weird for most men to wrap their heads around