How do I leave

[Halloeeee]

i Did a thread about my relationship on another topic thinking it’d reassure but I think it’s reaffirmed I shouldn’t be with my partner.

He’s quite mean. We have 2 young kids a toddler and baby under 6 months.

how do I go about leaving? I don’t want him to have custody. He’s so strict and suggested cry it out for our toddler I couldn’t leave the kids with him for days hed be so strict I feel sick thinking about it

but I only have my month to month money I don’t have savings - where would I go

You couldn't withhold contact because someone is 'strict'.

Do you have family or friends you could stay with? Any chance of working more to build savings?

He most likely won’t want custody, 50/50 at the most.
Being strict isn’t abuse, you can’t withhold access because he is strict, he is their parent. Imagine how you would feel if you were told that you couldn’t see your children.

Is there more background you can give as to why you want to leave him?

We're moving this thread to our Relationships topic at the OP's request.