What can I do

[Miah10]

I don’t know where to start really.
so I have been with my partner for nearly 5 years, we have one child together and I had a baby when we got together.i also had a bad miscarriage 2 years ago. Since having that miscarriage our relationship has been awful. We constantly argue, and I am basically ignored for 3 days straight. I pay all the bills and provide for my children, doctors school ext and even though he works and earns a good wage. He hates parting with money and most of our arguments are about him not supporting our children. I left and got my own place with the children , now this guy is doing the same in my home and totally refuses to anything even leaving. I don’t want to hurt my children but I am so unhappy. I am also heavily pregnant and he doesn’t even want it but still won’t leave me alone. He says Its my mental health but I’m happier when I’m just with my children. Wow😳that was a lot

YOU ARE BEING ABUSED

He is a cocklodger (male version of a gold digger). He doesnt want to let you go because you have given him the perfect life. All the bills paid, all the work done and he can keep his money and time for himself.

If it is your home in your name then you can get him removed.

Call the police, explain that you want him out of YOUR home and he wont go and you would like their help in getting him to leave. Tell them that you are frightened as you are pregnant and being abused (YOU ARE, FINANCIAL ABUSE IS CLASSED AS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE).

Contact Womens Aid, they will help you too,

Take care my love xx

He needs to go sweetheart. Please get help to get rid of him.

Tell him to get the fuck out of your house and if he won't leave you call the police.

Stop being a doormat op.
It's not actually that hard. It's your house, he contributes nothing and you want him out. Police. Or, simply just change the locks when he's at a work and send a text saying 'do not come back to my house, im done asking. I've changed the locks and if you return I'll call the police'. Drop his stuff at his parents house.

Why on earth you're having another baby with this loser I don't know.

You left and got your own home, so why have you let him in, and why are you pregnant by him again? Phone the police if he won't leave, it's your home, and use contraception if you don't have the strength to prevent sex - though that horse has bolted. At some point hopefully you will quit doing what he wants and letting him use you as he wants - he can only do this because you let him, you have the power, you always did. The life you chose is what it is.

I left and got my own place with the children , now this guy is doing the same in my home and totally refuses to anything even leaving.

How did he get in and stay in?

If it’s your place ask him to leave and if he won’t call the police. Also in the kindest way why do you keep having babies when your relationship is terrible?