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OLD potential

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EJF4S · 13/05/2024 21:01

So thinking of old, potential is 34...3 children by 3 different women

He had his first child at 19, mother of child not on the scene and his mother mainly raised her. He still lives with his mum.

He's been to prison for fraud for stealing money from his disabled cousin this was in 2017 and has 10+ motoring offense.

Second child is 4 years old, and doesn't really see his son, isn't on speaking terms with the mother due to not paying maintenance.

Third child has down syndrome and is 18 months. Lovely little boy, and he's on good terms with his mum, helps out and pays maintenance

Is this suitable for dating ?

We've been on drives and dates and had a nice time

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GladAllOver · 13/05/2024 21:03

No

Irishmama100 · 13/05/2024 21:04

Sorry, really don’t mean to be blunt!
Walk away, it would be even better if you could run!
This would be way too much baggage for me to deal with.

Pinkbonbon · 13/05/2024 21:09

...are you on glue?

Of course he's not suitable for dating!

I mean he's the king of red flags.

Steals from his (disabled!) family member, been to jail, 3 kids by 3 different women, doesn't see or pay for two of them, 2 of the mothers have cut contact/are trying to avoid him, lives at home with his mum (tbf, only a red flag if he's never stayed on his own I suppose), countless motoring offences!

Literally ANY of these things on their own should have sent you running!

Don't date at all right now op. At all. Anyone. Because you're obviously very vulnerable. Take time single, get some therapy to address why you've even considered this man. And spend the next year minimum reading up on how to spot red flags of dangerous, yes, dangerous men.

LateButNotTooLate · 13/05/2024 21:10

😂

Knackeredmommy · 13/05/2024 21:12

Is this a joke?

FrazzledHippy · 13/05/2024 21:12

Fuck that. Is he all you think you deserve? I'd work on your self worth before you start dating if you're considering this caliber of man as a possible partner.

HornyHornersPinkyWinky · 13/05/2024 21:18

This has got to be a wind up...

samestyle · 13/05/2024 21:39

Don't be that desperate for a date.

SamW98 · 13/05/2024 22:32

Yes he’s obviously suitable as a date……

Is you’re absolutely desperate for any convenient cock rather than be single and if your bar is lower than a snakes belly

Honestly if this isnt a wind up then you must have appallingly low standards. He’s got more red flags than a communist party rally.

fuckingbastard · 14/05/2024 08:00

Hell. No.

GreyCarpet · 14/05/2024 08:19

I wouldn't date him, no.

ByUmberViewer · 14/05/2024 09:12

There's plenty a Mumsnetter that would be grateful for him Grin

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