Hi all
just wanted some third party views on this situation as of course my friends tend to ‘side’ with me.
My partner, DDs dad, spends no time with her aside from maybe 5 minutes every few evenings. I do everything as if I was a solo parent and this has been the case for the last 6 months - so since DD was born.
I woke up extremely unwell today, got what partner had last week. He saw how unwell I was and said ‘don’t tell me you expect me not to go to football today’.
I said no as it hadn’t really crossed my mind. However after he said it I was quite upset as I thought it was pretty selfish given he was unwell the week before and I, as usual, did everything with DD and made sure we both kept out of his way so he could rest in silence etc.
AIBU for feeling upset about this? I wouldn’t have expected him not to go to football but I do feel quite bothered that he doesn’t do anything at the best of times, goes to football/pub every weekends, and wouldn’t even be willing to make an exception for me to have a break when unwell. Instead I went to my parents and they watched DD while I laid down.
really not sure if I’m just being mardy as I’m unwell and hot/bothered!!