FH always turning me down

[LaLaPoo]

He used to make me feel so special and loved and couldn’t keep his hands off me, now it’s the opposite and always excuses not to have sex.

maybe I’m over thinking it as he says he still feels the same and still fancied me, but I’m just not feeling it from him and he rejects me so much but after teasing me.

i really don’t know what to do.

I think you do know what to do. If FH means future husband you know you can’t marry him.

You should be slamming on the breaks right about now because your relationship is barely treading water. It would be madness to marry him.

I wonder if he’s just not that into sex and was kinda performing at the start of your relationship to reel you in ?

I mean that’s a low/no sex relationship is fine for some people but both partners need to be OK with that and aware of what they’re signing up to.

What is FH @LaLaPoo ?

This, more men than we think just aren't into it and it needs to be more acknowledged so that women don't feel bad. Because we assume all men are dogs in heat

No idea what FH is. Never seen it on here before

Guessing FH is Future Husband? Makes more sense than DF which could be Fiance/Fiancee, Friend or Father.

I definitely wouldn't marry him until this had been sorted!

FH….future husband! Maybe not a mumsnet terminology but is used on other forums. Apologies for confusion.

You can't marry him, OP. Thank goodness you found out what he was really like before marrying him. Your sex life with him at the moment is as good as it's going to get. You deserve more - and a better attitude from him too - rejection and teasing you are not good ways for him to respond.

Yes, do not marry him. It will not change. Leave him. Seriously.