Apologies if this may be too long to read but really don’t know what too do 🫤
me and my ex partner who I have kids with , I broke up with him last year some point so whilst we been broken up he had nowhere to go but he sorted out to go stay at his mates house who was on holiday for a good few months so he stayed there for a while to look after there cats . I got back with him as he manipulated me so much and didn’t realise just arguments so I had broken up with him again 3 weeks ago and I mean for good . He’s always been trying to get back into my good books and trying to swerve his way back in but I’ve kept a firm no now and not getting back with him as he’s a very narcissistic man and his draining the soul out my energy so much .
A week and a half ago he was at mine helping out with the kids so it got very late and couldn’t get on train back so he said he’s going to have to stay round for a day or 2 so he could help me out with money as I didn’t have money for the weekend so I said erm ok then fine . 2 days had gone past , I had got paid and told him how he’s going back home today and when and he said he’s very confused and where is he going and I said back home ? So he then texted me saying I know what you did there , you got paid and now I have to go . What ?
Then had arguments and him saying I’m similar to my ex who was very very abusive towards me knowing when my ex gets brought up it’s very triggering for me like what
Long story short we have spoken after aswell and said he’ll be leaving sometime this week as his job is doing a stay away job meaning the manager pays for his hotel while he’s working out the city , as he’ll have nowhere to go . He was meant to see a housing officer this Tuesday for housing but hasn’t gone , it’s Friday and he still isn’t gone , he is trying to play happy families . He knows our relationship had been making me feel so depressed , I don’t know what to do at this point .
Forgot to add aswell the day he told me ‘he sees what I’m doing and how I just got paid etc .. the friends house he was staying at they have now come back from holiday so he can’t go back there now
Hope this all makes sense ..🤔😆