EA x and I divorced when DD(4) was a baby. He made up a false allegations as a revenge when we initially split up. Although an awful split and something I would never forgive him for doing, I’ve tried my best to keep our co patenting relationship as amicable as possible for DD sake. I met someone over 6 months ago and was planning on introducing him to DD. Out of courtesy I informed X (also because I thought it would be better coming from me than DD). He’s now demanding he doesn’t want DD around any other man and must inform him when new partner is visiting. I told him to jog on (he remarried a woman from his home country in secret without introducing her to DD.
As he’s realised he can’t dictate that he’s now went from having DD twice a week to 1/2 days a month. It’s quite obvious he doing this in the hopes I have no free time and will not be able to continue the relationship/ pursue another in the future. Family all work full time and money is tight so hiring babysitters isn’t an option
Has anyone else been in such a situation? Any advice appreciated!