Should I tell her

[BeCoolUser]

My fiancé and I have been engaged the past couple of months and had been dating for a total of 4 years but I have known her for 5. I’m scared to tell her that while we were getting to know each other, I sent her texts from a throwaway phone saying some messed up things because I was drunk but she thought it was a previous guy she had been with after she confided in me and was crying hysterically, the guy she had been with was very jealous, controlling and abusive. I literally forgot all about it until my brother told me about receiving calls from a spoofed number and it brought it all back.Should I tell her?she’s also expecting our boy in June. Other than that, we’ve had a really good and healthy relationship and I love her dearly.

I think the name calling here is overboard. He says this happened years ago and if he went to therapy, addressed it and has not shown any of the behaviors since then, then of course not, do not throw everything away. OP you’re dead damn wrong, however you need to make it up to her by being the best father and soon to be husband.

unless you have decided to tell her you should delete this stream asap to reduce the chance of her or someone she knows identifying you from this. You have given some very specific details (unless you have been smart enough to change them). Ages, delivering a boy in June, bad relationship 5 yrs ago.

Bringing it up will take away her peace of mind and comfort in her own home and life. She doesn't deserve that.
Use this as motivation to do better for her and the baby.