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How do you know if it's a bad patch or if it's a divorce

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Itsmeamandaberry · 07/05/2024 18:50

So I need to be a bit vague about this.

My DH has recently fucked up nothing illegal and not cheating but it was a stupid mistake that cost him a lot of money around £20k (not gambling either). He has been diagnosed with depression and anxiety and it ties in with his stupid decisions making. He wasn't getting better so the GP increased his dose and he said he's feeling better.

I am just so angry with him I go from being really supportive to hating him for making such a stupid mistake. I am arguing at him at least once a week. I can't picture life without him and I do love him but he has really let me down.

We are "ok" with him loosing this money ie we aren't struggling to pay bills and we have separate finances so nothing really changes for me and I will support him if he needs me to cover bills for a while.

I don't want to blow up my whole world for a blip. We have been together for over 10 years and it's the first time I have really felt like this.

Any advice? Sorry if this is ranty and rambling.

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gamerchick · 07/05/2024 18:57

Sounds like you've answered your own question OP tbh.

We're all allowed a fuck up, it doesn't sound catastrophic. But it has to be a one off.

When you can't stand them touching you and have nothing but contempt then it's definitely game over.

Itsmeamandaberry · 07/05/2024 19:14

Thanks @gamerchick I'm just so angry I can't see the wood from the trees.

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