Don't really know what I am asking here.
My DH will be 47 this week and he says he is feeling really old.
We have been together 16 yrs married for 10.
We have 2 children.
He has always liked drinking and stops off for a drink most night after work.
He started to make a real effort coming home at a resonable time so we could all sit down to dinner together.
But the last few weeks he has gone back to his old habits.
Not coming home for dinner when he says and not answering his phone.
This is really pissing me off as me and the childen wait to have dinner with him and he does'nt turn up so we end up eating late.
Last night he came in at 9pm no explanation and tonight he comes in at 8.45 and I mention his dinneris in the oven or shall I throw that one ouaswell like last night.
He gets n a strop and puts in the microwave and begrudinly (sp) eats it.
I ask where he has been and he says where do you think I have been?
When I ask why he does'nt answer his phone as was ringing him about dinner he says he hates his mobile and they are for emergencys.
I said how do oyu know it was'nt an emergency.
He then says he did'nt have a mobile phone when we first met.
Now he was recently seperated when we met from his first wife and was going through a divorce nd would ring her occasionally re the arrangements.
He repeated about not having a phone again when we met and my mind working overtime wondered if he was referring to the times he would ring her when we syarted seeing each other and he had;nt told her about me until the divorce went through.
Which leads me to think is he seeing someone else .
A bit cyptic I know.
He then just brushed past me and went up to bed no goodnight or anything.
Am I right to be suspicious.
he always says you now where I am in the pub drinking.
He did say he went to a certain pub for a pintbut was there 4 hours.