Clare's Law

[shannnxo]

So I decided to do a Clare's Law on my child's father (I haven't seen him in a few months). I had to put down what he had done to me as to why I wanted to know about his history and I put threatening messages. They recently contacted asking me about the threatening messages and I said it was a long time ago months ago and I haven't seen him for months so I don't wish to report it. I then decided I didn't want to know about his past and move on from everything altogether and have told them to drop it and they have told me they will close the case accordingly, they said they will have to pass my details on as procedure to social services. Should I be worried? Will social come and do checks now? They have told me they are not concerned I'm in danger or my baby is in danger.

I've also explained to them he barely even sees her and he's really not bothered about her

Why don't you want to know? What if he reappears , wants to spend time alone with your child?

If it gets passed to ss I imagine they will ring you to check what's happening. But I'd also be concerned that it's being passed on based on what they found? Or do you think it's the threatening behaviour?

No judgement but ... that reads to me that you 'made up' the bit about threatening messages as a reason to access the information about him; and you are now panicking as they want the evidence!!

I didn't think they did them on exes? I want to do one on my ex but I didn't want ss to get involved but wasn't sure if they did so now I won't.