Advice on telling someone you are attracted to them.

[cheltsam83]

I'm looking for a bit of advice. I connected with someone on Instagram and we have been chatting for about six months. It was a yoga account account which we share a passion for. We have since exchanged mobile numbers. We are going for a coffee at the end of the month. Meeting for the first time.

When we first connected I saw them as just a friend with shared interests but now I am feeling more connected and would love to get to know them, they are super hot and have an amazing smile. Amazing personality. I don't know if they are single.

Question is I am thinking about texting them as to how I feel. If they are in a relationship I don't know.

If texting how would you phrase the text without coming across weird

I am not sure if they are single. But we both have a feeld profile which I stumbled across. I'm single

I wouldn't text yet. Have the coffee and see how things go. Chat in person about whether they're in a relationship and see if there's a connection between you.

Yeah, wait until you've met in person.

You might not feel the same when you meet, they might smell weird or not be like their online persona.

Maybe bring forward the meet up instead if you're that eager.

It would put me off meeting if someone I had never met texted me that. Just go meet them and keep your expectations in check. It might be the start of something lovely or not.
Why is the coffee so far in the future?

Coffee is so far in the future as I'm in holiday and we both work away with work.

That's part of the reason for my thoughts on texting but I think by the sounds of it that might be a bit odd to text

Slow your roll, you haven’t even met yet. Meeting will likely make a lot of these things clear. You’ve waited 6 months, you can wait a couple more weeks. A text would be inappropriate at this point.

Thanks good advice all.