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Wwyd? The reality of leaving

3 replies

Youreleaving · 03/05/2024 20:53

32, together 15 years, one 3 y/o.

Recently, my feelings towards him have completely diminished though I've had doubts for years.

I work full time, 31k a year in a fairly cheap city and have family nearby. We could sell up and probably come away with £20k each.

Realistically, is it ok to stay in this mediocre relationship or do I have a real option to leave?

OP posts:
Gettingbysomehow · 03/05/2024 21:04

Of course you have the option to leave and by the sounds of it better sooner than later.

doitwithlove · 03/05/2024 21:07

@Youreleaving

You are probably feeling how will I cope. Take every day as it comes, we all cope in these situations.

Good luck, do what is best for you and your dc

category12 · 03/05/2024 21:43

I think if you're splitting, probably better to do it while your dc is young.

Could you buy him out?

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