I have 3 of my own children
My partner has none
I'm 32 he's 47. We live apart for now as we're both tied into our own homes but our set up worked & we fell very much in love. Been together 2 years.
Found out I'm pregnant last week. I know it's early days. We planned this as we both agreed trust the universe if it's meant to be it will be.
I've been feeling really poorly already and since we found out he's made excuses not to see me and tells me how busy he is with work all of a sudden. I feel so lonely with it
Last night he text me and said he's scared and he said things can go wrong. I said such as? And he said it could be deformed or die !????
And he went on to say he's old now?
But then said he wants me & baby.
I feel like he's struggling with this more than he's letting on.
I keep crying & he gets angry with me & snappy and says "here we go again"
And he tells me not to blame him that I'm ill which I haven't.
I'm thinking to cut my losses now and raise baby alone. I'm shocked.