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Left feeling confused

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Knittingclub · 29/04/2024 09:28

And need help, was i in the wrong?
I went out with work friends (very rare for me) and had a few drinks was home by 5pm. I left oh with our 3 month old, i did ask him numerous times if he was ok with this.
I mentioned getting food later ordering in but he said only if i pay as hes spent already, this was just a passing comment and nothing was agreed on.
I didnt hear from him whilst out, on my way home i got a large pizza. Once home i popped my head in living room, he didnt even look up or aknowlage me, just stsred at his phone. I found this annoying so went into kitchen plated up my pizza and came in.
He said i thought we were getting food, i said theres loads left in the kitchen. He stormed upstairs and stayed there all night. Only coming down to put food in the oven then ate it upstairs. He didnt speak to me all night or this morning hes left for work.

OP posts:
Bookworm20 · 29/04/2024 10:58

he sounds like a petulant child.
So basically, you were in by 5pm. he wanted food but only if you bought it (which you did). Why couldn't he have cooked for you both, its not like you rocked up at midnight!
He had the arse because you went out and it didn't involve him!
So he is going to punish you by making out you changed your mind on the food (you didn't and plus he could have cooked! Does he normally expect a cooked by you or bought by you dinner?) And for going out!

Personally i'd ignore his little game or simply tell him to grow up.
And start going out a little more often. Don't let his attitude isolate you and make you feel guilty for a rare evening out. I expect thats his plan. Make you feel so bad that you won't do it again.

Knittingclub · 29/04/2024 13:32

Thank you @Bookworm20

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ByUmberViewer · 29/04/2024 13:33

You served food for yourself but not your partner?

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