Advice needed please.
My pil treats my DH like a small boy. They often tells me that I'm a cradle snatcher, DH is in his 30's, they call him they're baby. DH moved miles away to be with me, they didn't like that, then we had our baby which they can't see often as they want because of the distance. Ever since I've met them, they do or say things that made me think they don't like me. Fil is known for having arguments with his sons wives or partners. They make awful comments regarding their Dil which makes me wonder what do they say about me behind my back.
They do not have boundaries, when I was staying at my dh's house when we are still dating which was near them, they visited without any warning on few occasions. They had a key on the house.
When we are staying at their house, I can't go to bed whenever I want as they like socialising, going to bed or doing things on my own is classed as anti social.
My problem is, they have managed to emotionally blackmail us on staying in their house for a long weekend visit, now I need an advice on how am I going to survive this without losing my mind or divorcing my husband. It is really affecting me, I get very grumpy prior to visit and it's causing massive arguments between me and my DH. Any advice or tips will be appreciated x