When to let go

[Snowdrop89]

I have a friend I’ve known for about 8 years, became close (as defined by texting each other every day more or less) about 3.5 years ago. She’s been out of contact for about 6 months. Had a few texts when my daughter was unwell and a Christmas text. She’s been having a hard time and I get that, and I’ve tried to be patient but I’m genuinely really upset that she just walked out my life without any explanation. Anyway I’ve been in hospital with quite a serious condition (a collapsed lung) so I texted her cos I thought she’d want to know - and she’s read it but totally ignored it. I feel hurt. Genuinely thought she was a true friend. What would you do? I’m struggling just to walk away and forget her as we have many happy memories and I just felt she got me in a way few people do. Any thoughts welcome but please be kind as I’m feeling upset tonight that my best friend doesn’t seem to care x

It's very hurtful to want kindness from someone when you're suffering only to get rebuffed.
I can only advise you not to add to your suffering by dwelling on her coldness. For whatever reason, she is not available to you at present.
Right now, you don't need her per se, you need kindness and comfort and recovery from your illness. Whatever form that takes for you is what you need to focus on. If your thoughts go back to her, commit to thinking about something that it is useful for you in your situation.
Sending good wishes.