Rude husband - awful role model

[Lauren1987sb]

So my husband has always had a bit of a temper, easily agitated but it seems to of gotten worse (actually pucking arguments with strangers, me and the children rather than just a moan) as he is getting older to the point he says things I find myself becoming ill with stress.

To infront of our children say to old people disembarking an airoplane "sit down and wait your turn" then argue with the elderly lady that she is rude from the plane to the baggage handling and tell me he is in the right because she is rude.

I have been trying to divorce him as in suggesting this for some time which has been hard, historically met with threats of suicide and immense kicking off.

The point of the post I guess looking for some experience in roadmap forward.

He has not put forward financial disclosure, solicitor recommending mediation, currently suggesting he will go to therapy ( hopefully next two weeks)

Children 7 and 10. At the end of my tether as awful role modelling occuring.

Thanks for getting this far and pleaee be kind x

historically met with threats of suicide and immense kicking off.

shrug whenever he says this

your concern needs to be your children and yourself

not him

this sounds like a ghastly place to grow up as a result of him op

why do you care if he goes to therapy op??!

focus on the divorce squarely

He is the father of my children they are going to have a link to him I am hoping there is help for him for them

yes. it that can be your focus after you have sorted the very very serious immediate issue - divorce

This is the man you children are learning about relationships from. It's how your sons will act, and what your daughters will expect.

What's he like with men similar size/fitness/bigger than him?

Interesting point however I dont have one of them. Focus is getting out current situation. Solicitor, family, therapist do not fit that type.

Looking for positive vibes way forward.

Maybe the Solicitor mediator will hold that build thanks

Thank you I know this and that is why I have entered divorce proceedings this gives me focus to keep going.

keep that focus Op
and don’t get distracted by worrying about him

Thank you