Tonight I asked my ex partner to leave my house when I told him that his behaviour towards me is unacceptable in the family home (it’s going up for sale this month). He then told me that I can’t tell him to leave because he still owns the house and any unacceptable behaviour he does is my fault because I have driven him to it. (For background we have been separated for nearly 2 years and now have new partners and he isn’t happy about mine even though there was no wrong doing on either side before the marriage ended, he just took a long while to accept I didn’t want to be married to him anymore).
I’m not sure what to even say to this…I asked him to leave the house because he got in my face and shouted when I told him I was unhappy with his confrontational behaviour when he drops off the children. He refused to leave.
I don’t even feel that I can tell my family what has happened because they are already so unhappy with how he speaks to me in the first place.