My husband of 15 years assaulted me last week and was arrested. Isn't allowed anywhere near me or even in the area. Anyone been in a similar situation and any tips on coping? We have four children which social services are happy for him to have contact with but I'm not used to being a single parent and I'm scared. I know deep down, even once the police and social services have done their investigation he can't come back, the abuse would only get worse. I own my home and have an income which can more than support the five of us but nothing prepared me for suddenly being a single parent to four children 80% of the time. When will this get easier? I'm finding it so hard to keep up an appearance for the children, especially the older ones. Haven't slated their dad at all and encouraged them to talk to him but the stress of this is making me ill. Obviously I'm trying to process what he's done, a separation, and four kids that don't have their dad around. Helpful advice would be welcome
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