Assuming you split when the kids were young- once they got older did they
a-ask directly what happened? And
b- did you tell them the truth?
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If your husband cheated, did you tell your children when they got older?
Userman43 · 16/04/2024 22:38
MotherMinion · 17/04/2024 12:41
Slightly different angle here: my dad had affairs.
Mum has never said a bad word about my dad. We just don't talk about it.
I think it was my grandma who let slip later on what happened and an older cousin (because her dad was the same) but I already gathered what had happened.
He married OW who was an absolute bitch from hell and then did same to her and the one after that. Kids everywhere probably.
Saying that, we still talk, me to my parents and my parents to each other and there isn't any bad feeling. We haven't held grudges.
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