I've been with my dh 15 years, married for 10. We were great. During pregnancy with second child he went completely off sex, to the point where I felt like a pest and eventually stopped trying. I thought once child was born we would get back to how we were however that never happened. After second child dh had the snip and since then, which was 7 years ago, we've hardly been intimate and when we were on the rare occasion, it was always instigated by me. It's been about 2 years now since we last had sex because Ive given up trying. He doesn't show any physical affection anymore at all. He won't hold my hand, cuddle up in bed, kiss or hug me. He doesn't even sit next to me on the sofa at night. I feel so rejected and confused. On the one hand he's always comparing us to his friends relationships and saying how good we are together but then this is what we've become. I've spoken to him about it in the past but nothing changes. I'm gutted because I love him, he's a great dad and other than this we're good together but I feel like I can't spend the rest of life in a marriage like this.