Have been following Dr Ramani on YouTube for the past few years, re visit her every now and again, and she is very adamant that you can learn a lot about a man, or woman by saying no to a request of theirs, or no that does not suit me in the first date or two, or three. Or that you can spot a difficult individual, narc? by saying no.
Basically what she means is good men will not push it when you tell them no? And the odd balls will push, override and even become frustrated or 😡
Personally think that had I known this a few years back I may have been able to dodge the abusive ones out there.
What do you think?
I dated a man last summer and said no to his stern request for me to change into heals rather than me waring sandals, during the date he was in a mood. I put a thread on here for advise on this and glad I did as I know I dodged a bullet.
What is MN experience?
And not his is not for daily mail, I am just curious to know myself, if this is something to use to weed out the odd balls.