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Left and hung to dry after a year's relationship. What do I do?

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Brewandbiccies · 13/04/2024 20:47

I've made a thread previously about my partner's coldness and lack of communication. well things have got worse.

We've been on a break for almost 3 weeks with no sign of working things out. He continues to reject me when I reach out if he would like to meet up.

He says his mental health is bad and he has been feeling even worse since he announced the break. I've tried so hard to reach out and see him. Tbf I gave him 2 weeks of space (when we initially only agreed on one week) before I asked to meet up and talk. He's been going to work and going to the gym still. even got his hair cut.

My question is what do I do next? He clearly wants this to be over but doesn't have the strength to just end the relationship. We live about 1 hours drive away from eachother and it was always me going over to him. I have things in his house I need to pick up. But I still don't even know what the situation is. I have no closure and feel robbed and abandoned when he said he'd never do this.

He just doesn't want to face reality or open up on feelings or emotions whatsoever. I have the right mind to just go over there and get my things and not say a word. But it's difficult when i have been on an emotional rollercoaster for nearly 1 week.

OP posts:
CantBelieveNaive · 14/04/2024 16:29

Did you get your stuff ok? Xxx

SheepAndSword · 14/04/2024 18:46

I'm sorry if I was a bit rude upthread, he really came across as being whiny and self indulgent.

I'd want my things back too so I hope that's done and you can draw a line. It's a shame when you enter a new relationship and things don't work out but he appears to be pulling you around a bit - at least it's a year and not a decade.

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